Not all opinions matter

There’s a saying that you do not take advice from someone on the sidelines, and the same principle goes for everything else.

Do not take relationship advice from someone that isn’t in a relationship, now you might say that the person can use past experiences to give you advice which is valid but you don’t want to listen and execute like it’s some set of instructions.

You must filter the advice of anyone, regardless of their experience to make sure that it works for you.

You read a self-development book, you do not live your life like the book says page by page, but filter it and see what aspect works for you. You must be able to think for yourself.

“Bro I don’t like your shoe”, alright but if you like the shoe, then who cares.

Wear it everyday till you get tired, it’s your legs.

Don’t let opinions of people shape your life, it’s not that you shouldn’t listen or ponder on factual opinions, but don’t let it control your life.